Life, love, a kangaroo pouch and the rock in the surf of life

Life gives up tasks, even if it's just one task - life says: "master me", then everything will be fine.

Let's let the kangaroo jump away and devote ourselves to life on the ground of facts or reality in order to be able to master life. Put the rose-colored glasses aside and start solving the problem.

We pick a topic and start researching it. The problem is that we only deal with one topic, but life contains everything you can do right and wrong. Experience is ultimately necessary in all areas, and new areas are constantly being added.

The question is whether you have actually experienced everything in a life of, say, 60 years to be considered wise. I think you can be 150 years old and still not be a "wise man", basically ... When a new situation arises, you stand there, if you can still stand, with 150 years of life experience and look at the socket like a pig and think "just another pig ... hiding in the wall". But it's not that simple.

Our topic:
Women and men and "true" love

Women and men are two species that couldn't be more different. Okay, they both belong to the human category.
Although things are usually quite harmonious in this relationship between men and women, problems can arise.
But are there problems? Or do you forget that everyday life comes after the rose-colored glasses - do you confuse problems with everyday life?

Eternal jokes are not part of the problem, but they can be quite amusing:

What is a man between two women ... an educational gap. Very funny, then a woman between two men is probably a crumple zone.

Okay, I'll stop, there are thousands of these jokes, but I don't want this to be an issue.

Man & Woman
Frustration, love, true love! Problems?!

After the rose-colored glasses have been lost, everyday life sets in. Now, in this situation, the first big test arises ... Can the new relationship survive everyday life? In most cases, yes, but in other cases - and they do exist - the partners don't recognize each other. Certainly one or two relationships fall victim to the truth during this time, but most of them last, at least for the time being.

Does true love exist? Certainly! If you don't just "love" your partner on a sexual basis or for the sake of money. As they say, sex isn't everything, but of course it's part of it.

Love at first sight?

Yes, it really does exist!

What love is now and in what form you feel attracted to the other person is, however, very extensive.

Problems within a partnership also go hand in hand with love, meaning that problems can also arise within a well-functioning partnership, but these are not necessarily seen as a problem by either side, but ... It is simply part of it. And as the saying goes ... "a thunderstorm clears the air".
A difference of opinion is not a problem but, at least sometimes, a necessity.

True love knows this too.
True love is love for the other in every phase of time. Conditions arise of their own accord, but they are conditions that are not imposed, they are simply given. "The pot fits the lid" you could say.

True love is the rock in the surf of life, you trust each other unconditionally, you love each other unconditionally. You understand the other person without words ...

Problems that you create or that are simply there should be discussed and not hushed up. The latter does not exist with true love; through boundless trust, every problem can be overcome.

Problems that arise are countless, true love makes them meaningless.

If you fail, it was never true love but a kind of "love makes you blind" or "love makes you stupid". The kangaroo from the beginning of the text sends its regards.

Don't mess it up, don't be blinded by love but love each other with a watchful eye and from the bottom of your heart. Be the rock in each other's lives.

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